My Mistress Personality

When I first decided to try my hand at Domination I didn't have a clue how to act. After all I wanted to be able to face my husband the next morning. I checked out websites but mostly found Professional Dommes or Lifestyle Mistresses. I contacted a few of the life timers and got some great advice.
1.Create an alternate personality that will be used in character only.
2.Dress the part. Get a Mistress costume and go all out.
3.Have a Mistress Name
4.Gag and/or blindfold him most of the time.
5.Have fun and don't be afraid to make mistakes.

I decided on the name of Mistress Jessica because I thought it was a sexy name, I thought my husband would think it is sexy and one of the Domme's who was the most helpful was named Jessica.
Since I had no intention of making this our lifestyle I decided on being as much like a cruel professional Dominatrix as I could pull off. I got a great outfit with very nice leather corset with buckles. Leather gloves. Knee high leather boots with 5" heels and fishnet stockings with leather garters.
The most striking thing was my hair. I normally have a mop of long but very curly hair. I seldom do anything with it as it takes to much time and I am to busy. Besides ant humidity at all takes control of my hair in no time. The first time I rolled out Mistress Jessica I took the time to straighten my hair. I have to admit I looked great. I wish I could have it like that always. I am so jealous of the girls in the shampoo ads.
Since then my wardrobe has grown so much. I can't tell you how much fun it is to dress up like a dominatrix even with a few extra pounds. Oh yeah and I have lost a bunch of weight since starting these games. I am obsessed with being sexier and getting better outfits. I have found I love corsets which was a complete surprise to me. And I can't tell you what a thrill it is for my husband for me to wear a corset and boots, even in not Mistress activities. The more normal the activity the better it seems. I am sure you will hear more about corsets and boots in other future posts.