Leaving Notes

I found one of the best ways to get started in a play session, especially in the beginning, is to start by leaving a note. This note can be an email, text message, or an actual written note. Since in the beginning I really didn't know how to do bondage I followed the suggestion I am now passing on. I left a detailed note of how I wanted to find him and when. That first note instructed him to secure himself spread eagle to the bed, blindfolded and gagged. All of it in such a way that he couldn't get himself out. I set a time that I expected to find him when I got home. And it worked. He was completely helplesss. He took it very seriously. His legs were chained to the legs of the bed as were his arms. Everything locked on and rather tight as well. He had wide strong duct tape across his mouth (we have found much better gags since then) and he had protected his eyes and taped over them as well taking no chance a blindfold would slip off.