How do you know?

I have had many questions asking me how a girl is to know what there husband wants in a Mistress. There is no really easy answer to this except pay attention to hints he drops. Breaking the ice and letting your wife know your most kinky desires is one of the hardest things your husband can do. It is often up to us to figure it out based on the little clues he gives us.
The easiest way is to check out his internet history or favorite links. The favorites links he goes to is probably a better way because he saved it so he must like it. In the case of history he may have clicked on a link and not liked it and clicked back right away and you can't tell. Keep an eye out for sites he goes to regularly. Also when looking at his history pay attention to what he is searching for on the search engines.
If this is a casual interest playing bedroom tie up every so often will be all you need. But if he is really into it than you will need to pull out all the stops. Realize that he may have been fantasizing for many years about his dream Mitress, probably since before he met you. His fantasy has most likely evolved many times over so you are at a disadvantage because you are a rookie.
With an enthusist you can bet if he likes bondage he likes a lot of bondage. Go crazy here. Trust me if you over do it he won't mind and afterwards he will let you know. I have gotten into the habit of asking him later about what happened. Or for some fun I make him tell me while he is still my prisoner. If you make a mistake you will know pretty much right away or soon after it is over. But don't regret, you will get credit for trying.
I have written about some things other than ropes and chains. Well some of these things took some trail and error and some came out of conversation during and after bondage and most were just lucky guess based on research, suggestions and things that caught my eye. What I have found that if I do enough about what he really likes I can do whatever else I want to. In this I like to really push the limits. I have some great stories to tell.
Whatever you do, don't back down and don't apologize. If something is obviously not right just finish it and change it. Don't let mistakes spoil the session. Make them work for you. Remeber regardless if you are doing this for him, the premise is you are doing it for you so him suffering a little bit won't hurt anything.